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writes:ok here goes, 21 years ago I met and fell in love with the most gorgeous man on the planet, after 3 happy years I fell pregnant and was promptly abandoned! He has no contact with our son until a month ago when we met up again only to discover all the same feelings of love were still there and that our relationship was very much unfinished. I can't put into words how he makes me feel loved, he just does like no other has been able to. I have just this evening however discovered he has taken money from my bank without asking and completely abusing my trust in my cash card. Not a massive amount £110 to be exact but that's not really what matters is it? We don't have shared finance, he is without money of his own right now as he was only released from prison the day we got together.I am at a loss for what to do next as I sit waiting for him to come home to confront him, do I throw away an otherwise loving bond and once again my son loses his father? I need answers and I need them fast! I am wearing out the floor here pacing up and down and not finding the answers. Any advice would be good right now as I can't talk to anyone I know until I decide my course of action, thanks readers I appreciate your time :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Don't throw away the feewlings you have he makes u happy speak to him about the money ask why he took it explain that it makes you upset and warn him. I hope this helps take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Is this a serious question or are you having a laugh?
Twentyone years ago? He's been in prison? He gave you a baby and abandoned you? He is nicking your cash?
You love him? Can anyone be that naive?
What has he been doing for the last twentyone years apart from being in prison? Has he got a wife or any more children around?
Time for a reality check and if you don't chuck him out now then you will get exactly what you deserve.
Sorry if that is not what you want to hear but I just can't believe how silly some people can be.
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