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writes:He is separated. Should I Call him?It was chaos and we lost contact. Now, he’s separated from his wife and I still love him. I am not sure if he still care about me. I worked for his family 3 years ago. Intensive chemistry was occurred between us unintentionally. It was wrong but things were under my controlled in the right direction, fortunately. However, he was smitten. He was unable to contend his feeling and wife knew it which putting me in an extremely awkward situation. I end up quitted the job and blamed him for everything. He was hurt but got over it. Things turned ugly when the wife found out I tried to talk to him after I left the family. I was unable to have a closure with him. Last year, I found that they had been separated. He looked terrible but I decided not to contact with him because I thought it was the crucial moment for his family and I shouldn’t interfere.Last week, I found out his wife and kids has moved to other state (don’t know if they divorce already). It’s been 3 years and I still have very strong feeling toward him. The unfinished business feeling is like a hole in the heart. I feel that I'm dying inside.My question is if it’s too late to contact with him? Do I stand any chance?
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reader, Angeleyes10  +, writes (7 August 2008):
Hi.. in ur position I would absolutely contact him, you have cared about him for so long and to this day you cannot get him out of ur head. Getting in contact with him will give u the the answers to the questions that r still in ur head - and if nothing comes of it - you will have had the closure that is always needed to enable u to move on. Good luck
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (7 August 2008):
 Give it a shot & see what happens. But be aware that possibly he may have a girlfriend by now.
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