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*tephie1108
writes:hiim in real need for some good advicethis is a long story but il try to cut it short!my partner is in the army! we have been together for 2 years! he was sent away to afghan half way through he proposed and it was the best day of my life!! we were sooo happy! when he returned after the tour had finished all he wanted was to marry me! he paid out right for the wedding it was all booked the photographer and everything! i couldnt of been happier!then he had a few nights out drinking with his mates! he told me our relationship was over and didnt speak for a week! then he begged me back i loved and missed him so much so i was soo happy he wanted me back!!we got on to the wedding plans again and 2 months ago he left me again, this time canceling the wedding! he is still begging me back it took a month and i gave in again and said i would give it one last try! he says every day that he loves me and wants to stay with me forever and start a family!do you think im doing the right thing? and should i give another try?im confused but i know i love him and want to be with him forever!!steph
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): Has he explained why his behavior has been such? If he hasn't given any good reason, I wouldn't give him another chance. If you do give him another chance, would you accept a court wedding? In the USA you can got to the court house and be married, doesn't cost much, and latter if you want, have a wedding that is more geared to your religion and having friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): Once can be understandable, but twice should be a dealbreaker. This guy sounds like a totally unreliable flake who doesn't know what he wants. I'm sorry to say, but it sounds like he doesn't really want you; if he did, he wouldn't have walked - twice! And starting a family?! What if he walks out on your children, too? Seems likely given his track record. You deserve someone who knows what they want - a life with you.
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