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30-35,
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writes:Should i still be with my boy-friend because i think that he is just using me for the money and my sex just like what he did before..Sometimes he tells me that he loves, but how am i sure that he just wants to be with me for more money. He has hit, kicked, and punched me before, but i just let it slide because it's just so hard to get away from him and i feel so in love..Until now he still gets money from me because i have to pay him for doing such little wrong things like make him mad over a conversation. I also get mad over little things, but i don't know if our relationship should work if were like this. What should i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2007): hes such an idiot,dump him, if he stalkes you call the cops. no man should EVER EVER hit a woman under any circumstances,im sorry hun, but sounds like it could be the money, if you got money and are a good woman there plenty of other guys out there for you, who im sure will apreciate you, when he says he loves i think he possibly means loves what you let him get away with. call it tough love hunni but you need to hear it from some one. xx
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (20 January 2007):
 I would get somebody to protect you when you dump this control freak bully.
What are you waiting for?
This will get worse, he display phyco potential to become a stalker.
Good luck and be strong, take no more crap from anyone.
For future reference, no matter how much you like someone, if they do not respect you, you not have sex with them.
If you have an argument, you do not pay them money.
AND, nobody has the right to beat you!!!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (20 January 2007):
 I'm going to be honest. Are you asking this question just to get confirmation that dumping your deadbeat boyfriend is a good idea? Because you just listed like, 20 great reasons to dump him. Well, here it is. Yes. Dump him. No, you should not be with him. He's a scumbag and doesn't deserve your time.
Honey, you don't need a guy like this.
Enjoy life! You're so young!! So many good guys out there... you just managed to find the worst one. Oh, and warn your friends about him.
xxIndia
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (19 January 2007):
 What should you do? Lose him . . . and then do some growing up before you get involved with anyone else.
Good luck!
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