A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, ok when i first started my bf everything was amazing up untill he found out thats his brothers fiance was cheating on his brother for 3 yrs straight. Two of my boyfriends ex gf has cheated on him in the past so now hes become so distant and is really taking this hard!!! He's become so angry and rude to me. He wont talk about it and when i tell him not to bottle it up he just says thats him and thats what he does. He hardly ever calls or texts anymore.I harldy see him. He says that its not about me and if it was he would tell me just alot of shit is going on with his brother. What should i do? And when i tell him that i would never do that he just says "ya right" "we never thought my brothers fiance would do that to" help please!!
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reader, Michelley-ox  +, writes (2 February 2008):
 Okai well first off this isnt your fault! this has obviously brought bad memories back to him and hes probably feeling quite insecure at the moment u just have to be understanding this cant be easy for him or his brother he might just not want to spend time with you incase his brother is still emotional about all women beogn cheats which tends to be a phase some men go through after they have been treated badly their sensitive aswell. he might just need space let him know that you are there for him to talk to when he is ready but do push him to much
good luck x
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