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female
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41-50,
*weetandsexy
writes:OK, my boyfriend and I have been together off and on for about 12 years. We have only lived together for about the past 3 years. We have 2 children and he is a wonderful father. He is supportive and patient and kind to our kids and is supportive of me. If I say I am tired he will cook dinner and let me rest while he takes care of the kids. We also have a great sex life, we have a lot of fun, creative sex and are both very open minded. The problem is he is a cheater. He has admitted to having sex with many other girls many times and will not stop, no matter what I do or say. He now denies ever cheating but will spend the night out and when I ask where he's been he always says he fell asleep over a friend's house because he was too drunk. I don't know what to do because our kids love him and he watches them while I work. I can't afford daycare and to be honest need help. What should I do?
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reader, sweetandsexy +, writes (15 July 2007):
sweetandsexy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGreat point, he tells me I am insecure and that he loves me and is innocent but I am convinced for many reasons. For instance when his cell phone rings he goes out of his way for me not to see it. Why would an innocent person do this. Also when I sneak and see his cell phone it is always girls names in the phone and he says they are old friends. Also I have read his text messages and he has told girls how he can't wait to "get some" from them, I love you, I hope your man is not home when I come see you, etc. It's just not easy for me because like I said he is actually nice to me when he is home and is great with our kids. He makes me feel beautiful and sexy and smart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): you dont know for sure if he is cheating or not, dont do anything till you find out for sure, maybe he is telling the truth, just keep your eyes and ears open , maybe a sitter one night see what is really going on its the only way your going to find out for sure
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