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*araC
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years now and he spent 1 year in prison, He admitted to me he had sex with other men while in prison, but he says it won't happen since he is out of prison now. But I wonder could he be gay? or was he desperate? I like him a lot, what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): I have the same problem, but the one guy my bf had a 'relationship' with is still his friend and now that guy is getting out in a week. Up until a year ago, that guy was still writing to my bf telling him how he was in love with him and always will be. Now my bf assures me nothing would happen now that they are out of prison, but he wants to visit him in another state when he comes home and I don't want him to and he says I have to trust him but I don't know what to do. (oh and I have known my bf for 16 years and we have been together and living together for over a year and a half).
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): Your boy friend isn't gay. If he were actually gay, he wouldn't have told you of his actions behind bars. He was what is know as situationally gay. Basically, he had to fuck or be fucked. Your man is still a man. If he weren't you'd be writing about how when he came out of prison he didn't want you any more. Real gay (homosexual) men don't desire a womans touch sexually speaking.
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reader, askJAY  +, writes (18 December 2008):
 hmmm...i agree with honey girl about the health and the gay thing....
also though, i hope that he is efficiently "rehabilitated" and free from any criminal urges relating to how he landed up in prison in the first place LOL.
be careful Sara.
Ciao
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reader, Honeygirl +, writes (28 November 2008):
 Sweetie, there are all sorts of horrible things that go on in prison, and sometimes men do things to ensure their survival in that environment. I dont think that your boyfriend is gay, yes I understand that he may have taken part in sex acts in prison, but I am sure he is not proud of that fact. What needs to be considered, is whether protection was used at all. He needs to be thoroughly checked out including HIV tests over a period of time to make sure he is clear. I would suggest some counselling as it sounds like you are having a problem accepting his behaviour in prison.
Honeygirl
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): hun wen your in prison really what else is there to do? I mean no girls around and somtimes you just want someone to play with your winky.
What i want to know is why your still wih him if he spent a year in jail he must have done somthing??
now you dont need to go and tell me why he was in there but think about it do you really want to spend the rest of your life with a "bad boy"
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