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writes:My b/f often masturbates to porn, i'm o.k with this and sometimes we watch it together.Anyhow last week he got caught masterbating in a shopping centre, now i think maybe i shouldn't have encouraged him.What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): This is not your fault. Its fine to encourage it, but only for him in the comfort of his own home. Think about if their was a small child (or anyone for that matter) who had seen him, and been disturbed by this. Again this is not your fault, it is your boyfriend, he should have self control. Talk to him about it, and see how he feels about what happened... again you can encourage it, but only when he is somewhere private. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): Nothing to do with you, but all about him. He needs help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): Do you think he would have got away with it if he had been just outside the FCUK store?
With a bit of luck the magistrates will turn a blind eye to it and, clasping their pens in their hairy palms, give him a conditional discharge.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (9 May 2008):
 Right because masturbating in your own home is the same as jerking off in a shopping center.
Be careful, if you had sex with him, you might encourage him to rape someone...
This is silly, you are not to blame. If all men who watch porn masturbated in shopping malls the floors would be awfully slippery.
I think he is an exhibitionist, if you are lucky. The court will deal with him, suggest he gets help. It just ain't a done thing and society frowns on people fapping in public especially where kids are present. His problem, not your fault.
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reader, xXx_Nikki_xXx +, writes (9 May 2008):
Hey,
Its not your fault at all. Hes the only one who can control where and when he does it. It is a very stupid act as its not a suitable place at all, infront of children and others who may find it very offensive. If he is blaming you then you need to set him straight.
Good luck x
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (9 May 2008):
 His behavior in public is not of your making; he chose to do this seriously stupid thing on his own. You do not bear the responsibility for this. What happens inside the privacy of your own house is one thing, what you do in public that could harm other people, especially young children, is entirely another.
Don't make this your problem, he has acted in a criminal way and now must face the consequences of his own behavior. I'm worried that you think you somehow contributed to this. Is he blaming you in some way?
Take care.
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