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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:One day the guy i liked allot(who liked me to but didn't ask me out after we hooked up and he dumped his girlfriend) asked if he could have a party at my house since no one was going to be home, and i said ok. So i invited 3 of my friends so i would know more than one person at my house. He came over but his friends didn't and we were all hanging out in my living room and then his cell phone rang. It was his ex-girlfriend who he dumped for me. She told him to come to the mall and he left to go see her. So me and my friends went to the mall an hour after he left and they got back together. So i've been ignoring him for the past 3 weeks(since he was begging to talk) until 2days ago when i talked to him on aim and then he called and we talked for 2 hours on the phone. I started liking him again and realized that i might love him. What should i do about this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008): You hooked up with him, and then he didn't want to date you later on. LISTEN TO THIS. Nevermind what he says in private. Look at his actions and not his words. I don't think he's acting very serious towards you with his actions.
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reader, heartsick  +, writes (7 February 2008):
I can't see this guy changing anytime soon. He doesn't need to! He's treated you both badly, but you're both still there for him.Are you even sure that he ever split up with his girlfriend? Even if he did - she just called, and he went running back even though he was with you. So, you know that he's chosen her above you and yet you're still chasing him. I bet he thinks he has everything just as he wants it!!I know you can't change the way you feel - and you feel like you have a chance of 'winning' him, because he's already shown you some interest. But do you really want to be his 'bit on the side'?If you're really set on winning him, you may have to take a chance on backing off, so that he has to change if he really wants to be with you. But if he doesn't come chasing after you, or he won't dump the other girl and go public with you - is he worth it?I wish you luck - just remember, men find confidence very attractive. That means not appearing desparate! If he likes you, and you back off - he's going to have to come after YOU, if he wants to see you. If you back off and he doesn't come, you have your answer.
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