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age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend gets so tired after I give him oral sex to a point that he actually goes right to sleep. Although I am pleased at the fact that I do this to him, I get really turned on when I do it and have to go to sleep all worked up. Is this normal? Has anyone else experienced this? Do any men out there experience this?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (14 August 2008):
Right on, Yos ! The very best way to keep a gal in the crib is to take good care of her first . . . every time. My fairly good instructions for cunnilingus are still here on DearCupid by searching that word above. A good woman needs a lot of heating up and a good man loves nothing more than the opportunity to provide the service. Many, if not most women say that no man has ever made them feel like that before, and then they seem quite willing to please the man in return.
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male
reader, Yos +, writes (14 August 2008):
DoubleM is right. You should get to go first :)
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (14 August 2008):
In my opinion, oral sex is and should usually be a two-way activity and he should be giving you one or more orgasms via cunnilingus (oral stimulation of the clitoris and more), followed by a good 10 minutes or more of woman-on-top humping for another climax or two, prior to you finishing him off with a good blow job. Then you would not likely care that he falls asleep.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): It's natural for a guy to feel sleepy after getting off...it's a hormonal thing. On the other hand, it sucks for us women who make it a point to give oral, right? I know. Give him oral for the first few minutes. Hop on top, or pull him into having sex or giving you oral (or whatever gets you off), and then return to oral to get him off. Win-win!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): dont do oral for so long with your partner, and go back to it after you have made love
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