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writes: I am with this guy "Joe", and I truely care about him. He's 16 and a virgin. I'm a year older then him and I've been sexually active for almost a year. We've both talked about our past experiences (or he's lack there of) and he's dedcided he wants to try sex for the first time. Well, here's the difficulty, we've tried 3 times now and everytime he goes limp before we can get the condom on. Is this a common nervous reaction for a guy's first time, or is this truely an erection problem at such a young age? Also if it is a real problem, what can I do sexual to help him stay aroused?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2006): I have a similar problem to your boyfriend, i am also a virgin and it has been happening to me aswell. It's just nerves and anxiety about performance, with you being more experienced and all. I recommend you to keep trying and don't make it all serious just keep it light as the more serious it is then the less chance of him getting an erection. Hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2006): Oh yes, the penis is fairly commonly afraid of the condom, lol. I don't know what it is, but when the guy starts fumbling around with that wrapper and that rubber, his little friend just hides away like a turtle in his shell. I believe that it is nerves, as it is a common problem for guys with lots and no experience. I suggest you try to open the condom and put it on there for him, while keeping it fun for him and keeping him aroused. If that still doesn't work, try a method of protection that you can use, like birth control pills or patches or the sponge. That way, the condom won't have to be in the picture and he won't lose his erection. Hope it works out for you two!
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