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writes: My boyfriend's penis goes floppy when I get on top it's really getting me down because I love being on top because I orgasm loads. But I feel like I can't satisfy him even when I'm wild on top. Please help. If anyone has any ideas to what is wrong or what I need to do!! thanks xxxxx
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reader, Robin +, writes (7 September 2006):
Must say that domination rules!
Personally I find it wonderful with the woman on top, I know that she is getting the best from the coupling because she has total control of the pleasure wand.
It also takes me a lot longer to climax which in my mind can only be good.
So enough about me.
I think that you and yours have to compromise, you will get the best deal from being on top, full stop! I realise that you wish to please your partner so, if this doesn't do it for him perhaps you would like to offer him your rear end and try it "doggy fashion"? One way to find out if this appeals to him is to sit in his lap and gyrate your rear or back into him standing up.
If domination is the issue here then you shouldn't have a problem then!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2006): I don't think it is a choice, control issue or anything to do with past partner/s. I'd say that position just doesn't keep his penis erect. It is probably way out of his control. Anyway ask him and see what he says. Turning around and facing the other way when on top, as Dr Pete advised, is a good idea and definitely worth trying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2006): Have you tried to talk to him? I agree with helpful girl- it probably most likely is a control issue. Maybe there is someway you can put a fantasy in his head that makes him feel like hes in control whilest you can still get away with being ontop? Just explore somethings and work on communication and whatnot. hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2006): Try getting on top but reversed position (it's called reverse cowgirl) so that you have your back facing him, you can also bend nice and forward as well, this will give your boyfriend much more visual stimuli and it may address the "issue of being in control" thing that helpful girl mentioned.
It might take a few times to get this right as the motion and angle is slightly different but once you do you will enjoy it just as much.
Damn i hate answering these sexually explicit questions haha.
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