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*arolr
writes:Live with a guy together for over 2 years. we have never gone out when he does go to the store walks behind me. no flowers, cards or gifts, yet i give these to him. i pay for alot of his things im lucky if he buys me a pack of smokes a month. lately he has stopped holding me in bed, no sex, seperate cover, says nothing is wrong and why am i ragging? should i stay or leave?
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reader, karolr +, writes (3 June 2007):
karolr is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou he stayed the night out twice latley,same girl always ther,friend of sisters ,says i never want to go anywhere.. I work at 5 am he leaves to go to moms and sis 2hrs before get off work 9hr shifts, ya im tierd and dont want to drive 15+ miles. i moved out yesterday. living in friends driveway in my 5yh wheel. I will survive im attractive am asked out often by customers at work maybe one day say yes to one. your replys really helped, thought it was me
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reader, tasha556  +, writes (2 June 2007):
 from what u have said its sounds as though he takin u for a ride and is out 2 get wot he can. so if i was u i would dump him , u shouldnt waste ur time or love on someone who doesnt appreciate u. gd luck with wot u decide nd i hope u sort things out.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (2 June 2007):
 He's only interested in the money and home that you provide for him. Dump his lazy butt on the street. Find someone who wants to take you out, show you off, and shower you with love at home.
DV1
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (2 June 2007):
 Unfortunately you are with a free-loader. I don't think it should be a sign of his affection that he gives you gifts every day or every week, but it is a normal and natural way of expressing love and affection to plan nice things and give the occasional gift to loved one's. It doesn't sound like you have much of a relationship between what happens in the bedroom and the fact that you don't go out together. Don't you think you deserve someone who treats you a bit better?
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