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writes:i've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now i have a little girl to him, we met when we was 18 years old, he was into drinking drugs and silly boy things and lied a lot well, when we had our baby he stopped the drugs and drinking and hanging around with his silly mates but he has not stopped lying to me about silly thinks, that's all he does is lie, what do i do as i'm really fed up of his lies now and really don't think i want to be with him anymore, will he ever stop lying he always says he forgot or 'i don't know why i lie' or something like that
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (1 March 2008):
 well you say you dont even know if you want to be with him anymore. you need to figure out exactly wat it is you want from him, cos if you dont want to be with him, then there really is no point on trying to work on this. if you do want to stay with him and think that there really is something to salvage here, then you need to talk to him. wat is he lying about? you need to tell him that in order to trust him, you need to be given a reason, and right now thats not happening. he should respect you enough to have a trusting relationship between you. if he cant stop lying to you then i suggest you try and move on, maybe maintaining a friendship with him for your child, but nothing more. he knows wat he is doing is wrong and giving excuses like he doesnt know why or he forgot is just not enough. talk to him and tell him that if things dont change and if he doesnt start respecting you, that you will leave. good luck
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