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*injerblue
writes:I am single and haven't met my true love yet. In the meantime, I am happily single. As we all know, that's when the men come out of the woodwork, when you are happy as you are. So there is a married man who flirts with me a lot where I workout, and at first I just liked the attention, but since I feel that the scale is tipping toward me being attracted to him, I want to cutoff this flirtation because I have no intention of disrespecting a marriage and getting my emotions involved. My gut instinct is that he is a player. That being said, should I just avoid him or would it would be a waste of time to "try to explain" why I'm not flirting back with him anymore?
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reader, Jinjerblue +, writes (17 July 2008):
Jinjerblue is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all, especially Cupid Rio for some details on how to handle this in a classy way. I was thinking I should rearrange MY workout schedule, but I think what you all said is right on, and thanks for the tip, I don't OWE him anything. Thanks again.
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reader, inkydoo +, writes (17 July 2008):
waste of time. you don't owe him any explanations. you're not in a relationship. you don't have any responsibility to his emotions and his needs, and if you really need to tell him something, well, HE'S MARRIED! it shows his character that he has a contractual obligation to someone else (marriage license, vows, etc...) that he doesn't mind disrespecting in public. that just shows how much value he puts into the commitments he makes to other people.
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