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writes:hi.i really need your help.there is this guy that i have been with for three months but now we broke up , because he kissed another girl and because he has just not matured enough,but i am head over heels for this guy and i think he is the one.i have not felt this way about a guy in a long time.i just feel that he is the one.we still phone each other and do things that couples would do , but yet we are not together.his friends and family tell me that when they ask him how he feels about me, he says his feelings for me are really strong but he feels bad because i work and he does not.i love this guy but how do i test to find out if he feels the same? i don't care whether he works or not i just want to spend my life with him.please help
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (14 July 2007):
 I suggest you talk to him. Nobody knows how he's feeling better than him.
Is it really a problem to you that you work and he isn't at the moment? Explain how you feel about this to him.
I agree with O Connor that some people deserve a second chance! Especially because we only live once.
He needs to understand he can't go kissing other girls if you get back together. :)
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (13 July 2007):
 ok well first of all i do believe in giving people second chance - after all we are all only human! you need to talk to him and make sure that he really is determined to make it work and understand that he cant be unfaithful again! also assure him that it doesnt matter to you whether he works or not - all that matters is that he loves and respects you and is willing to commit to you! if you dont feel reassured by this and are completely happy to start things up again, then you should walk away. i hope this helps hun good luck
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