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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 4 years now. We have had a rocky relationship. In the beginning he kissed another girl that was wayyyy younger them him. We moved on after that and then a couple years later I found pictures of her on his computer...This really bothered me and he "deleted" them and said he knew it was wrong and would never do it again...happened again not too long after that.And about a week ago I found pictures of her again and on top of that pictures of ex girl friends and pictures of my friends.and in his history he has been on their facebooks looking at pictures while watching porn. I have no problem with porn it is just when he brings people that we know into it....on top of that pictures of real young girls.I confronted him and he said that he still fantasies about these girls and wishes that he would have had more sex with different girls before he was with me (he was a virgin and just wishes he would have slept with more people before we got together) and as for the young girl he has those "fantasies" and once again he has promised to stop...I just don't know if I am overreacting or what I should do about this matter...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): It really wouldn't matter if he has slept with 100 women. He would still fantasize about other women. That's just the way men are.
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reader, blahblahblahh  +, writes (10 August 2010):
 You're not over reacting, I don't think your boyfriend is ready for a serious relationship. How young are these girls? Looking at porn is okay if you're okay with it, but looking at your friends and pictures of girls he knows, is not the norm in relationships. If it were me, i'd of not gave him any chances i'd move on to someone that wanted a serious relationship.
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