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writes: I have been casually seeing a guy for a month and like him but am not head over heels. The thing is he told me last night that he thinks he is falling in love with me. I am not falling in love with him!!!! My instinct is to run but he is actually ok and I'm not saying that in the future I might not feel the same way...Do I give him a chance or bail out quick? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2006): If you think that you may ever feel the same, then I would not bail out. My boyfriend told me he loved me, and I wasn't able to say it back. But, I find as time passes, my feelings are growing stronger for him. He was totally understanding that it was too soon for me. Give it time if you think there is ever a possibility.
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reader, hannieseds  +, writes (26 June 2006):
 Hey there,
A month is a really short amount of time to get to know someone in so do not feel at all bad that you don't feel the same. It just means that you aren't at the same place he is, but that doesn't mean you won't ever be!
Was he guttered when you didn't say 'I love you too' back? If you are open with him and he understands that it is too soon for you, then you can hopefully relax and play things cool and see what develops!
You don't need to push to feel anything - just live life, enjoy his company, embrace the love he is giving you and see what happens! xxx
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (26 June 2006):
 I have to say i know how you feel, when my boyfriend told me he fallen in love with, i was scared, worried and i felt kinda bad that i didn't feel the same.
All i can say it all really depends on how you feel about him and the relationship. do you want your relationship to head to that directions? do you want the possiblity that you may fall in love with him? do you feel your ready for that kinda of relationship?
All people can do is advise no one can tell you what to do, it's up to you do you really want that type of relationship.
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