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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my best male friend do almost everything together. We have the same interests, the same humour but we are just mentally close. I always felt some kind of attraction towards him, since he is good looking and very kind. The girls in my school go crazy about him... Anyways I really want to get closer to him,but he doesn't seem interested in me that way although I know he likes girls who look like me. On the contrary it seems that he isn't interested in girls at all, but he continuously confides that he is not gay.I have no idea and on top of that him and me are also best friends with a girl. Could it be that our friendship breaks when we would get together ? Could it ever happen that we'd get together ? We had a conversation about that 2 years earlier and he told me he wouldn't want to destroy our close friendship. How can I convince him otherwise ? But what is with my other friend would she break down by that fact ? Please help, it's so complicated !!!
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (7 March 2010):
 Hi, this situation can be complicated but can work.
If you are feeling attracted to him other than just friends then ask him on a date. If he says no then just leave it and carry on as if nothing happened.
If you have a strong friendship then it wont matter if he doenst want to date you.
Some guys can be shy when it comes to asking for a date and it could be he feels the same way about you but isnt sure about your feelings.
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