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writes:okay well i like this boy we went out like 3 times and i broke up with him all those times but idk i really likee himm alottt and he dosent want to go back out with me beacuse he said he dosent want to get his heart broken 4 times and i said im sorry and he said it dosent matter anymore and i cried and i dont know what to do i just really like him he treated me right and was the only boy who made me laughed and smile when i didnt want too.. what do i do???
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reader, briebrie123 +, writes (30 December 2008):
That happened to me to. If you really liked him you shouldnt have broke up with him in the 1st place. If you really are intersested in going back out with him ask some one who knows him and that you can trust with something like that.Someone who wont lie about something that serouse to you. Try to tell your friend to make it convinsing and that you wont hurt him again. If he still doesnt like you move on. No guy is worth wating for and your tears dont cry if he doent like you.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (20 November 2008):
 I'm basically shocked that children are concerned about romantic relationships. Men aren't usually mature enough for a relationship until they are 30, if ever. lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): Honey you are young. I know that isn't what you want to hear because, that doesn't make you feel any better.... sadly though sweetie there isn't much you can do right now. If you really do like him a lot as you say, then try to be a good friend with him and maybe after a little while he'll feel safer sharing his heart with you. Other than that, just know that while it hurts right now, this too shall pass.I promise I am not judging you because you are young, you still have feelings... I know from experience. I got married when I was 18 (much too young) and now I am 24 and divorced. If he is the right boy for you, it will work out. I wish you luck. :):)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): I don't think you're old enough to be talking and asking relationship advice, honey. And, if you really liked the guy, you wouldn't have broken up with him..... that's how I was when I was your age, I wanted it to be a non-stop drama fest... when you're older you'll know how to deal with these kinds of problems. But after all, you're only...11?12? and you shouldn't be stressing over boys =]
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be  +, writes (19 November 2008):
 If you miss him so much now, why break up with him all thouse times before?
Never mind. I can understand his hesitation, and I'm not sure if it's repairable. You'll just have to convince him that you still like him, and that you really want to be with him again.
But you must think first: if you go out and break up again, it could destroy your friendship.
Sory, but that's all the advice I can give here. Just try and be more gentle with him if you break up again. Avoid doing it if you can.
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