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writes:Okay so I've been talking to this guy for a while now.. but we knew each other for 3 years. We both admit to each other that we have strong feelings for each other and are going to most likely start dating soon..he's so sweet, genuine, warm hearted, smart etc. However, we brought up the topic of sex and he said "sex is not a priority for me in a relationship" and he continued to say "I was with a girl for over a year and we didn't have sex"..I do not know what to think of this...does anyone have any ideas as to why he doesn't want sex.p.s hes not gay Reply to this Question
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (22 August 2011):
 He's propably not having sex because he feels sex is for when he finds the right person, maybe not. And that's understandable and a good idea to stand by. He's said that sex isn't a priority, so you're going to have to decide if all his other qualities outweigh his lack of desire for sex. Don't try to get him to change his mind. Just wait and let him get comfortable enough to consider it. But if you're going to expect it in the beginning or before he's willing, then you may not want to be in a relationship with him if you feel sex should come with the relationship. Let him decide on this, and maybe he'll happen to come on to you when you least expect it.
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