A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ok im 19 and ive been with my girlfriend for about 3 years know, i feel like im becoming boring to her because she doesnt pay much attention to me as she use to, we argue everyday and she rubs our past in my face, what should i do to make our relationship better? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, Miss kelsey +, writes (30 August 2011):
Okay darling, iv been in your boat! After a long time people get sick of one another, living in each others pockets isn't healthy no matter how much you want to, you could of also out grown each other. Got together early in life and have different personalities now. You both have grown up and what once was compatible may not be now. As hard as it seems now, it will once settle. Together or not. Some emotions can get confused in time, what once was love now may be narmality, accepting change in a positive light will make things clearer. Talk to her in depth about how you are feeling and listen to hers. No arguments, no ifs or buts. Honesty is the key to the future of you both. I hope this can help you. Xx take care
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