A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey well i dont really know what my problem is but i know that im confused and stressed! last year my dad died through alcohol and yes it is hard but he was never there for me i rarely saw him he lived with me till i was about 13 but i didnt really speak to him or actually get on with him. I am 16 and i know its stupid but i regulary drink and i go out into town alot which im only just allowed to do but i have done it since i was 15 and just lied which to me is easy i can just roll it off my tongue and i hate it! My mum is really strict and doesnt like me drinking but i hide it!Anyway thats about me but i have a situation so i am a virgin i have done everything but sex which i feel proud of most the time but now im starting to feel like im getting a bit old :/ The reason i think this is because i really liked this guy he is 19 and well good looking he doesnt live near me but he is always out in my town and we see each other a lot and he said the he thought i was gorgeous and all this and i have now known him for like 7 months but its been on and off,and the last time i saw him we were getting on really well and he was like being really flirty then out of the blue i get this question "are you a virgin?" and yeah i am and since that i have never had a text or when he is in southport i normally get, you out tonight? but no nothing soo i gathered he realised i wasnt easy?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 February 2011):
 I think this guy was after some girl that he could have sex with and be done with it. But when he realised you were a virgin he was not interested as he probably knew you wouldnt just have sex with him out of no where. Believe me you had a lucky escape. Men who are really interested in you would love the fact that you are a virgin because it means that you are not easy and that you dont sleep around. Therefore wait for that guy. Also dont rush in to losing your virginity wait until you are totally ready and it is with someone you care deeply about and also make sure you are sober when it happens.
Am not going to give out to you about drinking as you already know what you are doing and the damages that alcohol can have, just try and stay sensible while drinking and never go over the limit. Its way to dangerous. Goodluck hun.
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