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*Princess_
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together now for 4 months, we have an active sex life and really enjoy each other. We always turn each other on and have lots of fun. However whilst he can always get an erection, he hardly ever comes. It doesnt matter whether it is oral or otherwise he just doesnt come. I have asked him what the problem is and he says he doesnt know. He can masturbate infront of me and make himself come but i dont seem to be able to do it for him. It frustrates me and now i am getting to the point where i dont want to spend a long time pleasuring him because i know he wont come. He refuses to go to the doctors and just says he doesnt know whats wrong!!What should i do??
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reader, megan1111  +, writes (18 January 2009):
When you say you don't want to spend a long time pleasuring him, perhaps he is feeling rushed and his performance is suffering. Most girls would die for a guy with this problem, so I am wondering can you relax and have multiple orgasms.
That aside, I would simply relax, plan for an evening, have some lube handy and apply it when you start to get a little dry. I bet when your man sees that you are determined to stay in the game until he cums, he'll cum. Don't forget to verbalize the pleasure you are receiving (moan out loud instead of under your breath) and make sure he keeps his eyes open. This is a secret a porn star taught me, if guys keep their eyes open and watch your expression, they can't hold back forever.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): I think the quickest solution to this problem would be to see a sex counsellor. There's no need to be embarrassed because they loads of couples with the same problem =]
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reader, _Princess_ +, writes (16 January 2009):
_Princess_ is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI already tried that, he tells me that he wants to cum and that he gets all the right feelings but he just cant!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): try new techniques,maybe you are not doing what he wants..like motions&stuff.he dosn't have a problem because he can make hisself cum.look online ask friends for some ways to make him cum..i had this same problem but he told me just what he want&now he cums..&i try new things on him and he enjoys it.
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