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writes:Ok so I (a girl) have a really close guy friend, who i secretly really like. We talk about anything. One night, I stayed at his house (just because) and we ended up sleeping in the same bed for warmth.So we talked for ages and I tried to get to sleep. When he thought I WAS asleep, he started playing with himself and jerking off (he still doesnt know that i know he did this). I'm not sure if he did it because I was there and because he likes me, or is it just because he likes to do that??Please help me. Its so confusing!! Reply to this Question
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reader, person12345  +, writes (12 July 2010):
 That's incredibly inappropriate to do while in bed with ANYONE, let alone a 13-15 year old you are just friends with. Even if he did like you and you turned him on that much, he could have gone into the bathroom and done something privately. Maybe he wanted you to see? Either way, you shouldn't spend the night in his bed again. He seems to have no perception of boundaries.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 July 2010):
I'm afraid he's a horny young teenager with one thing on his mind. Sex. But it rather shows up as a guy that perhaps you shouldn't be sleeping with. Be safe. You don't want to wind up in trouble.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): I think the bigger question is why are you sleeping in the same bed with a boy the age 0f 13-15? That is promiscuous behavior and gives the impression that you are up for sex as sex happens in a bed when two of the opposite sex are in it.
Boys that age are raging hormones, just brushing up against you will give him an erection, yeah it is kind of creepy he did that while you were sleeping next to him, he could have gone in to the bathroom to take care of it...seems like he wanted you to know and hoped you'd do something.
Let's get something straight. A boy wanting to have sex with you does not mean he "likes you romantically" it means he is horney and you are handy as a shirt pocket.
More than likely having sex with him will ruin your friendship, make things awkward between the two of you, cause him to lose respect for you, and you will be hurt by this.
You are too young to be doing what you are doing or to think about having sex. I believe you are both legally under age to be having sex.
Stop torturing the poor boy and don't sleep over. Where are your parents by the way? You should be talking to your mom about what you need to know about sex, std's birth control, etc....keep an open dialogue with your parents, not some internet advice column full of strangers, non professional counselors, and internet predators, and prison inmates...for all you know...Got it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): I guess he wanted sex.
Seems a bit strange for someone to do that whilst being in the same bed as a 'friend'. Even if he does like you more than a friend, it's still strange.
I'd personally be creeped out. I think I'd be very put off.
But yeah, he obviously got turned on from you both being in the same bed together. I guess he didn't want you waking up to find him with a huge boner!
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