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He doesn't ask whats wrong when I'm feeling down?

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Question - (16 July 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2011)
A female Brazil age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was feeling really down the other day, and talking to my boyfriend online.

It was very obvious something was wrong by how I described my day, my responses etc. Instead of asking though, he just ignored it, sent me a few flirty messages, and said he had to go.

What gives?

For myself, I find it hard to tell people whats on my mind if they dont show any interest/concern.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2011):

He may not have picked up on it, he may have just been in such a good mood he didn't notice, he could have been horny and not interested in your bad mood, he may not see the things which you think are "obvious" or this could be just one of those things you do a lot and he's become immune to it.

Talk to him, ask him about. Because he's pretty much the only person who can tell you what it is.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2011):

it could be many things maybe he didn't catch on maybe he's not that type of guy to get affectionate n by all means is jus not the guy for u . or maybe he doesn't care and jus want u for sex only u kno what type of person he is u should let him kno how u feel he's being and by his response u will kno if he cares or not.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2011):

It could be that you think he should have picked up your mood, but people often don't. And even if he didn't, his way may be to try and cheer you up with flirty messages. Or he could have enough problems himself and not want to listen to yours.

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