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writes:My husband of six mos., rather we remarried after 34 yrs. we had fun dating and was intimate, altho he has ed, and went to drs and can have implants in but he turned me on tremendously two yrs ago, took the effort to make me happy, and i did him with what we could work with. now we finally got married and seems like he lost interest. i can play and release him, but he dont make any moves to touch nothing,just the breast but goes no furter, when before he use to use his hands, never oral, he says he dont like doing that, but thats ok, im not stuck intercourse or make him feel cause we cant consummate my sex life bad , so not to have him feel less of a man, i enjoyed the teasing and playing around we did do. but now he makes no moves to initiate things except to touch him and oral sex him and ends there, he gets up and thats the end. i feel like he dont like my body or wants to touch her, never kisses, i feel used, like a slut or call girl, i know he loves me, doing and buying so many things, but i need his physical touch, caress, warmth of love in his eyes. he was cked on hormones, and dr said healthy just had heart trouble but all is in great shape to get the op for splints for erection, but if he makes no moves to explore my body or even makes an effort of interest it wont do us any good if all it is ,is to put it in, no foreplay etc. i need more, talked nicely to him about it and never response, i ask if its my body, it isnt fat or unkept, im always clean and try to be sexy and other times just be me to see what can make him want to touch me, not me to just touch him, if i dont make a move we get no touch, one time a mo we play, rather he encourages me to play with him but he dont do a thing for me. or its touch breasts a bit then quits, wont go below the belt, i asked why , but never answers . its heart breaking, cause in the beginning he played and he made me come three times in a day with just his hands and slow caress and now it seems he dont want to put any effort to do things to me, acts like its work. need help
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): Im 22 and I hear you … but imagine this he initiates things like oral and stuff, but wont offer to do something for me, and the way I see it is why should we ask them to put there hands in our panties and touch us? ?? why do we have to ask for some sweet words and soft caresses? I actually came to a point where I also felt my body puts him off, I am ugly to him and he doesn’t want to touch me, so I stopped being interested myself and I am 22 years old, its sad to think that this person you are literally on your knees for does not want to take care of you the way you take care of them, my BF has actually gone as far as saying the reason he doesn’t ask for anything is coz he can feel I am not turned on by him, but he does accept the goddamn blowjob and when he gets that, I would hear that I only do that so we don’t have to have sex, I wish I had an answer for you I wish I could tell you what to do, becoz we are both in the same spot… but I don’t think all men are like that, seems like its only some.Good luck
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