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writes: I started a relationship with someone via text messages. We met up and things got very serious over a period of 2 weeks then all of a sudden he went cold and started ignoring me by not texting back, making little snide remarks to hurt me and flirting with other women in front of me. He says he can't talk about his feelings and is too scared to let it go further. The thing is we are in daily contact and cannot avoid each other. When we are alone he will be polite. I still care about him and sometimes feel like i want to make him hurt like I am hurting, but at the same time I want that chemistry back, but don't know how to. Should i just ignore him and hope he will be attracted again? Please how can i get him interested again?
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reader, RoyD  +, writes (6 June 2010):
I agree with KellyO. Don't try and chase after him, you will only make yourself more miserable and you will push him farther away. Most likely he will not come back to you, but you can't make him come back either. I have dealt with this myself recently and it is very hard, I wish the best of luck to you, and I am sure you will find someone else just as special. Even I did and I am geekiest guy in the world :D.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (25 June 2006):
 Hi there,
My own advise for now is that you should give him space.He obviously doesnt want to continue the relationship especially at the pace it was going.If you try to push him things will only get rough. You have already indicated that he is flirting and making snide remarks.
I know this isnt perhaps what you wanted to hear but believe me it is for the best.
Go out with other friends and have fun. Dont restraint yourself on his behalf and dont dwell on what is happening.
Goodluck
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