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He didn't call me, I'm in shock. Did I scare him off?

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Question - (4 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have been dating someone for about 1.5 months,we immediately fell in love. Constantly calling and texting etc.. When we don't see each other its constant keeping in touch. He tells me how much he loves me, that he loves me more than anyone in his life and he can't imagine life with out me now, etc.. well a week ago he told me he loved me but called me a different name, granted not in the heat of the moment but still, it crushed me. We immediately talked it out and he apologized and it was over. Now a week later he had plans for the weekend so on Friday, I was just really sad that I wouldn't see him and expressed it, just saying it made me sad that I wouldn't see him and it was hard to be apart. Well never got a call all weekend from him and now I'm just in shock. What happned? Did I scare him by saying that even after everything he had said to me? He was the emotional one that is always telling me stuff and I do once and nothing? I'm confused and my only thought is that hew was with someone else and I'm being played.

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A female reader, sappygirl United States +, writes (4 August 2008):

sappygirl agony auntAny guy that tells you he loves you after a month has to be a player. He does and says everything right to make you fall for him. Then when you do..they lose interest because the chase is over. I think when he called you by a different name is a huge red flag. i wouldn't be surprise if he has other girls on the side.

Give him his space. Don't call him and he'll wonder what happen. Men suck!

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