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He dated to me to get to a friend. Now he wants to date me again. Is he just using me to get back at her?

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Question - (9 March 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 12 March 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *loveandysixx! writes:

Okay. There is this guy and in around October we started dating for a short while. It turns out he only dated me to get to one of my friends and they have dated in and off the past couple months. I've. Liked him on and off during that time period. He and my friend are over for good and hes stalling everyone that he really likes me and we are hanging out in a group this weekend. I am afraid that he is only dating me to get back at my friend but everyone I Ask says that he is not. Should I give him another chance?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (12 March 2012):

Honeypie agony auntIt's always good to learn how to trust your gut. Listen to that little voice, it's usually right.

And good for you!

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A female reader, iloveandysixx! United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2012):

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iloveandysixx! agony auntThanks you guys. I think I knew that I shouldn't I just needed other people to say it for me.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (9 March 2012):

Honeypie agony auntNope, stay away from him. He seems like a user and a real waste of time.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (9 March 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI would not give him another chance...

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A female reader, mum2two United States +, writes (9 March 2012):

yes, i to agree w/ youwish do not take him back he used you, and you dont need someone thats not going to treat you right.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (9 March 2012):

YouWish agony auntNo way should you give him another chance. He used you to get to a friend and dated you under false pretenses. He blew your trust, and that's not something you should ignore.

Trust me, there are so many other guys out there who will date you because they're interested in you. This guy blew it. Don't take back a jerk.

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