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writes:I recently had a breakup after a 1 year long relation .he cheated on me for another girl but now he keeps on sending me texts and calls me and says he wants me back and he's sorry.on one hand i want to go back but on the other hand i feel like he isn't trust worthy .also my best friend is trying to set me up with another guy .he's good looking ,smart and is almost perfect in everything.it has been almost 4 years since he had crush on me. But his caste is different than mine and my mom is very strict about caste system as the caste system prevails in our country. What should i do?? Please suggest me!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2014): Do not take him back. A whole year in a relationship and he chose to blow it, says something about the type of guy he is. Generally, once you take a cheater back somewhere down the line they're going to see someone who they feel is attractive and will cheat with them too - knowing they were forgiven last time they tend to believe they will be forgiven again if they just tell the sob story about how sorry they are.You can do much better, your family wouldn't have accepted this guy anyway so now you can look at getting to know single guys who they would.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2014): I took back my boyfriend who cheated on me.. and I still have regrets! I stupidly fell pregnant two months after he cheated.. though he says it'll never happen again he still lies about who hes with and where he is! I wish sometimes I had walked away, having to worry all the time really isn't worth it! Get out while you can! Best of luck x
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (12 January 2014):
 Do not take the ex back. He had a whole year to make a good impression and he choose to blow it. That's his problem, not yours. Cut ties and don't speak to him again. He's not your friend.
The caste thing may be unreasonable by our standards, but going against and your parents' wishes could cause you (and him) a world of grief. For starters, tell your friend to stop trying to set you up. I don't know how far your parents will go to enforce their rules so I'd tread very carefully.
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