He cheated but didn't go all the way with her. Should I be okay with this?

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Question - (28 September 2008)

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A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and around April he cheated on me with a girl.. he didnt go all the way with her.

Well i forgave him and we've been fine ever since.. well the last week she text him for the 1st time in ages and all it said was hello havent spoke to u in a long time, hows school and just the normal conversation. Well ive been getting my self down about this everyday since the text saying shes going to come down and want to see him and try it on again with him cause i no she stills likes him.

I just want him to forget her but he says he cant forget a mate. He keeps telling me nothings will happen and im the one i want. I trust him i just dont trust her !! I really dont want to split up with him over this !

I dont no what to do. Im getting so stressed and moody :(

Thanks xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008):

This was my question that i am repling to :)

He didnt cheat in front of me no ! Because he told me what he done... he came round my house and told me everything straight after saying he was in the wrong... he said i can understand if you want to leave me but i really dont want to let you go.

He doesnt treat me bad or anything ! his always stood by me through everything. I love him to pieces. I forgave him about the cheating thing cause his promised me he would never do it again, and he hasn't ! Shes not coming down to see him (cause she lives in germany!!!) she was a transfer student. But i keep thinking to myself omg what if she comes down, would she try it on with him again :(

I have tried talking to him but i just start crying and so he comforts me. He is a really nice guy! my family love him and i love all his family.

I think because im getting so stressed lately and everything im thinking about things i dont want to think about and i dont no how to stop thinking about these things. I cant stop thinking about bad things and its really getting me down :(

Thanks again xxx

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A female reader, Emily* +, writes (30 September 2008):

I have tried talking to him but i just start crying and so he comforts me. He is a really nice guy! my family love him and i love all his family.

Thanks again xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008):

I have tried talking to him but i just start crying and so he comforts me. He is a really nice guy! my family love him and i love all his family.

Thanks again xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008):

I have tried talking to him but i just start crying and so he comforts me. He is a really nice guy! my family love him and i love all his family.

Thanks again xxx

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A female reader, justme3 +, writes (28 September 2008):

i know how you feel. I've gone through this before and the best thing you could do is to let him know exactly how you feel. If he truly cares about you i doubt he will meet up with her knowing that it's affecting you greatly. If he does meet up with her, then i dont think he deserves you

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008):

So he cheated in front of you? How do you know nothing happened? He went there he knew he was doing wrong, but he went anyway.

So what we can glean from this, is that he is not adverse to a bit of deception.

You are very young and you are in danger of setting yourself up as a bit of a doormat.

Make a lifetime decision that no one will treat you in such a manner and get rid of him.

Good luck

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