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writes: Im with this boy and we've been together for 6 months but in the past he has cheated on me once and I found myself not trusting him. I also cant get myself to kiss him anymore. I love him so much and dont want to lose him but dont know if i'm doing the right thing. What do you think i should do??
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (14 April 2006):
 Hi EMZ,
Know why you can't bring yourself to kiss him? It's because you don't want to become any more attached to him incase he hurts you again. I think you know this deep down inside of you.
You say you don't want to loose him but I think you feel you've already lost some of him to someone else (as a result of him cheating)
Sit him down, have a long talk and you both need to express how you are feeling to one another. I agree with Bridget here.
Hope I've helped,
Phoebe
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reader, bridget +, writes (2 April 2006):
 Hey there xXx EMZ xXx
Hope that I am able to help you..
I think that the best thing for you to do is get your communication barriers up again with your man and explain to him that you need to be able to get your feelings out in the open again... Not just yours but his aswell..
I feel that when you have done this you will be able to make a brighter picture of the fuzziness you have just now..
You are having problems trusting him and cant bring yourself to be loving towards him becasue he took your trust away when he cheated on you..
This is a normal reaction but it has to be treated and once you both have spoken about what problems you have I think you will manage better..
Good Luck
Jacqueline
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