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writes: Dear Cupid,please.I need help.I love this guy so much.But he just told me that he will be going to england next year.I might not be able to see him.He say its his choice, his decision.but the only reason why he stayed back was because he loves me.But i doubt his love.cos once he was mad at my friends for calling him a playboy, he dint reply my sms.I dint even do anything! And another time,i sms him and i wrote i love you and goodnight stuff like that, and he just wrote k...But those letters he gave me....telling me i was everything in his life and when the first time i dint accept him..he almost cried and started kicking the canteen tables but that was last time...now..? I don't know. He might be leaving the country and say he could choose to stay or not .But he is caught in the middle...but he loves me! He said so himself.so if you love someone, you will make up your decision quickly.stay here with the person you love.And im unsure of his love..i really love him..but im scared to love him more than he loves me...what do i do? Nothing?
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (6 December 2006):
 hi there
i think he said he loves u bcos he does, how u can love him is up to u, but its better to make-up ur mind whether u want to love him or just be with him, as u cant tell how much a person love u so that u can love less, i dont think u are making it easy for urself. if u are really unsure of his love for u this is also the time to find that out bfore he leaves. if going to england is part of his plans i think what u guys need to do is to talk about this trip rationally discuss how the long distance will affect ur relationship and the willingness to make it work is also an important issue here. if u feel he cant love and leave u express that as well he is the only one with the reassurance. u need to stop being so insecure and start working on things that will make u secure now bfore he leaves otherwise ur relationship wont survive a day apart. good luck
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