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female
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41-50,
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writes:Hi, I am looking for advice on a guy I work with, we have both worked in the same office for about 3 years, we didn't really speak for the first year and then all of a sudden he started to chat away, we then decided to go to a gig together and at the last minute he sent me a message saying he couldn't go, no explination, when I went to work he was on leave for three weeks and when he came back it was never mentioned and we didn't really speak again until very recently, he was in the Army and is very good looking and he knows it, I am not all that and I am very shy and he knows that. He has recently been really nice to me and said that he likes me and he has asked me to stay at his house. I am a little confused with what's going on. I actually thought he had a girlfriend but he says he's single but I just don't know if he is being straight with me or if he is just playing me as when other people are around he stops talking to me and he only seems interested during working hours.
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reader, kenny +, writes (15 August 2008):
 There are 2 reason's why you should not go out with this guy, the first is because he has seriously messed you around in the past with no explanation's or apologies. Because you are shy he thinks he can pick you up & put you down when he likes. the second reason is because its never a good idea to date someone who we work with. When things are sweet then all's well and good, but when/if things go sour things can become pretty messy for you, him, and your co-workers. My advice would be to steer clear of this guy and find someone else.
All the best x
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