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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Me and this guy in one of my classes have been talking everyday after class for the past two and a half months. We talk a lot and he's really nice, I catch him staring at me a lot in class. I'm not sure if he's interested in me, but I am so I asked him for his number last week saying I could ask him about class stuff. He said yes, seemed pretty happy and pulled out his phone and told me to give him my number and he would text me so I could get his. he even said we could definitely meet up and study together. The next day he asks if we can study together over the weekend since he has no plans. We make plans to go Sunday at 11 at panera. Idk is this a date? Well anyways 10:15 on Sunday he texts me saying he just woke up and his parents want to go to church and have lunch so he can't go. He says he's really sorry and that we can study the next day instead. I ask him if he's free later in the afternoon, he says he would let me know. 3 hours later no reply, I text him if he's still free and he says his parents have stuff for him to do. So I say okay you can make it up to me tomorrow if you're free. 4 hours later he reads it and doesn't reply. I tell him I'm not really free because I realize I have practice after school, so he says if I end up being free that he is open for studying afterschool still. We eneded up not going, he hasn't talked about maybe hanging out over the weekend or anything. I asked him about hanging out this weekend coming up and he said he's free so he prob could. But I don't want to say anything until he decides to make a move. Is he uninterested in me? But why would he ask me to study with him? He's really smart and he would get no benefit from studying with me. Yet he takes forever to respond, and doesn't try to make up the plans he canceled on. I just don't know what is going on in his mind. I don't want to be annoying but I don't want nothing to happen if he is interested. Any ideas on what his intentions are judging by his actions?
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female
reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (9 December 2015):
 He doesn't have any intentions, you have initiated plans enough, you now need to wait and see if he contacts you to do something this weekend, if he doesn't get in touch, then let it drop, you will know that he isn't interested or is just flaky.
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