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He can only do it once.

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Question - (10 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Is there something I can do to help? I am in a FWB relationship. The sex is good but he can only get off once. We both want to go again and it is really fustraiting him. I don't think he has ED, I think it has a lot to do with stress and drinking. I try and give him head to get him hard again but it doesn't really work. Sometimes I think that doesn't work because he feels that if he is getting attention that he needs to give it to me at the same time. I really feel like he feels inadequate when this happens because he is always bringing himself down when it happens. Any help would be great.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007):

Make him stop drinking. Nothing good ever comes from a drinker.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007):

Don't put so much pressure on him "to do it again"....just find other ways to pleasure each other for now, and it will happen later....it could be the friends with benefit label on this relationship, he may feel guilty because deep down he knows it is wrong and you both deserve more....sex starts in the brain....

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