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writes: Hello, I've recently just broke up from a 2 years, long distance, emotionally-abusive, gay relationship. I'm having a real hard time, as everything reminds me of him, and what breaks my heart is that when he finds someone new there'll be someone else holding him and it's not me.He broke my trust, he promised me we'd be together forever. Just several days ago he said that we'll be together, and that he only wanted me, and this weekend he springs up some information on me saying that he is not ready and does not want a gay relationship?? My world crashed.He isn't seeing anyone else, I asked. but how can someone's feelings and someone that declared their undying love all of a sudden not love anymore, and change their minds? I keep myself busy during the day, and I do OK, but the nights, and when I'm alone are the worst, as I always wonder if I did something wrong, and about all the promises he made of our lives together.We never classified each other as a gay couple, we were two people that loved each other so so much.How can I go on? I'm finding it really hard, and I wish he could feel my pain, and see what this did to me. I asked in a text if I was just a phase, or if he did love me, and if it's over and he doesn't reply. I'm so confused. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2006): Hi there, I really sympathise with you and this is a tough one. This guy however is hurting you. If someone was in love with you, they would do their best to make you feel happy. He obviously has issues about his own sexuality, whether he be gay, straight or even bi. Look out for yourself, give him space. If he really is meant to be with you then he will come back. Remember he has the problems not you! Stay strong xx
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