He broke up but he will not explain why until he considers I am ready to know! Should I give him a b-day present?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

well this guy told me that he liked me during the Christmas holidays last year, we got to the same college , but we broke up after a week. i still dont know why he broke up with me, he wont say it because he said that hes going to tell me when im ready to know and when he thinks im ready to know, we havent been getting on since then, and its his birthday tomorrow, i brought him a present, he keeps blocking me out of his life, he gets on with all of my friends but not me. hes not the type of person you can talk to because he hates being all lovey and stuff like that. anyways last week i shouted at him, we always fight but i think this pushed it abit i told him that hes not the type of person you can talk to and that hes a waste. i saw him the next day at college and told him that i wanted to explain, i said do you want to hear it, he said it depends, then i never got a chance to tell him, but instead i sent him an email telling him what it was about and that i was sorry. but the thing is that i always say sorry for everything that happens,and i want to stay friends at least but i don't think he wants to be friends anymore. i get the feeling that there is something between us but im not sure . he wont open up to me.

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