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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I really want to tell this guy how he makes me feel but I'm scared I'll scare him off because he is sometimes hot and cold with me...When we talk we connect although he asks me things about myself, when I ask him he doesn't reply, he continuously watches my social media stories, does he like me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2017): You're scared??? What's up with that? Why are you two dancing around each other like a couple of teenagers?!!
I don't know about you; but if someone blows hot or cold around me, I redirect my interests. You have to be consistent for me to give you the time of day. I don't want to be an after-thought or a hard decision to make. Either you're interested, or you're not.
How on earth would you scare a grown-man off? What kind of wuss is he, if he knows a woman likes him? Perhaps he's just not that into you.
Friend-zone him and find someone who sends you signals you can read. Time to grow-up and go for what you want, girlfriend!
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reader, N91 +, writes (27 July 2017):
 You're in the 30-35 age bracket, I think you should be past the stage of being scared to tell someone how you feel by now.
Are you planning on carrying on this what if scenario forever? Or finding out where you stand to either progress the situation or move on with your life?
Time is ticking, stop wasting it.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (27 July 2017):
Might not be a good idea,he might feel pressure and as you stated might scare him off.However 3 ways of looking at this are.[1] Maybe he does not know yet how he feels about you.[2]Perhaps he just wants a friend.[3]Maybe he is trying to decide is it a friends with you or more that he wants.Yes he likes you, but right now you do not know at what level.CONTINUE to be friendly and give it some time,but not to much time...then it might be wise to start making new friends.Best wishes NORA B.
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