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writes:Am I suppose to do anything or wait?I knew him for four years. he was kind to me when I was a loner and looked different (I came from a culture where they wear shawls on the head). Turns out his dad was from that culture and I really began to value him in the two years but would stay awya from him bc I was SO insecure about myself that I thought he pitied me. Also, I thought it would be better to stick to guys in my culture. A year passed (3 years since I met him).I got a makeover (and the shawal came off too). I missed him and got in touch through fb. Two/three conversations later, when I said we should grab something to eat, he then tells me of his gf. I get distant a little.A few months later. I meet his friend. I didn't know they were good friends at all. I really fall for him but he wanted to have no regrets and both of them block me at the same time. I sent each an email asking what the hell...and found out they both knew one another really well. His friend made it seem like I was the one into him and that he talked to me so much bc I was just "ALWAYS" around. So after finding out that they were both good friends and his friend's pathetic talk I went MIA. A year later, I find out that he unblocked me on facebook. He keeps posting the pictures I would love of him. I haven't seen him for over a year bc college ended. Do I just ignore the situation?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 September 2011):
 Ignore it. Personally IF he wants to apologize or get back in touch he needs to make the first move, as in sending you an e-mail. Other then that.. I would honestly remove him instead of having this raincloud over my head constantly reminding me if the past drama.
That is my honest opinion.
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (12 September 2011):
 Hi,Yes ignore him, and forget about him. Why are you still debating about him after 1 year that you didn't have contact at all. He was friends with you for 3 years before this happened, at the time he was rude to you for blocking you. Even if he had a girlfriend, he could have still be friends with you what he did was disrespectful and he didn't think of your feelings at all. Rather you like him as friend or romantically he was not supportive of you, just left you alone. That's not a friend. He did before, he will do it again if you keep in touch with him. You said he was kind? No, he's selfish, and a little immature how he handle the situation. You make friends so you can trust them. Friends respect each other and care for each other. You seem like a nice girl, why don't you make new friends? Friends that really deserves you?Hope you make the right decision and good luck
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