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writes:i have been on here alot since i started dating a 69 year old man. i am 65 years old and we have been dating 3 years and 9 months. We had broken up two times times until day before yesterday. it seems that his grown kids that are married are very controlling. i believe that they caused the break up last july and now this one. they just plain do not want my man dating or have a relationship. they have pused him to break up and finally he did. there have been lots of call from them since this happened this time. my man is so stressed out...... he is trying to stay with me and please them too. he has told me that he wants some things changed about me and i belive that this is because he does not want to blame his kids for anything. they think that i have moved out of his house. he had dinner with them last evening and then came home. no sooner than he got here they called to see h\if i had moved everything of mine out of his house. i just have clothes here. he made it a point to announce to them last evening that we had broken up and they i am sure were thrilled. i believe that they forced him to do this because i witnessed a telephone call that my man just sat there and listed too. his daughter was fussing and telling him what he needed to do. i blame my man because he allows them to control him. i have threatened to return to my apartment to live and to move forward with find another man. this seems to bother him somewhat. he is so very stressed and tends to blame what i do wrong on the stress rather than blaming his kids. what do you guys think i should do.
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reader, Spedie0802 +, writes (25 September 2008):
Move back to your apartment and go find someone else.
It sounds like he won't stand up to his kids. His kids are being very selfish. They should be happy that their father has a companion and someone to spend his days with.
Until he makes a stand with them, then you two will not be happy.
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