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writes: i have been going out with my boyfriend now for about 10weeks. in the begining we did not have arguments at all, but now we do. These arguments are over the stupidest things, that do not even matter. When i try not to make it an argument he some how manages to and always wants to come out on top. One of our arguments; we were in his room and he started feeling me up whilst watching a movie. We have very nearly had sex before so this was not a problem at all, but i asked him not to because i wanted to watch the film, and he said i led him on and he go really pissd at me. Another argument so that I thought the main actor from How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days was fit and he would not hug me anymore, hold my hand or even talk to me, even though we were great minutes before. How can i stop all these arguments from happening, he always gets pissed off with me for what i think i no apparent reason, please help i do not want to break up with him, i love him. Reply to this Question
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (13 December 2005):
 You should definitely not have to put up with this sort of thing. He is not giving you the right to have an opinon at all. I am sorry to say it but I really think you need to break up with him, no one deserves to be with someone controlling. Go find yourself a nice guy that that lets you think for yourself and only feels you up when you both want it. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2005): ok, it sounds like your boyfriend is acting very childish. not holding your hand or hugging just because of a comment you made? that sounds ridiculous to me. it sounds to me like your boyfriend is very stubborn and immature. next time he gets pissed off about something really small, just ignore him and pretend like it isn't happening. you shouldn't have to walk on eggshells just to make sure he isn't going to get all pissed off on you.
it is also possible that he is really insecure. he got really offended after you made a comment about another guy being fit. also, you had every right to just want to watch the movie. just because you two are together in his room, he should not automatically think that is going to mean sex. let him know that you are bothered by his modd swings. maybe there is something going on in his life that is causing them. ask him about it, be honest and open, and if he picks more fights with you over stupid things, just tell him that if you wanted to hang around with a child, you'd be babysitting..not in this relationship. best of luck!
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