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writes:this guy tells me all the time how gorgeous he thinks i am and how he loves me. when we're together he holds me in an embrace as if he doesnt want to let go. he always ask me to go out and i really like him but wanty no if hes just a player or actually likes me.advice please?thanks!xxx[Added]I have never made out with a guy before and this guy really wants to kiss me and i don't know how to react when he does or how to do it the right way. Please give me advice.
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reader, BendychickP  +, writes (15 July 2008):
 Well, he probably does like you. Has he been in a bad relationship before? Maybe he's been used or hurt or even cheated on. I mean, would you hesitate before going into another relationship? Maybe he is scared of being hurt. Just continue to be his friend, let it happen naturally. Don't be afraid to like someone else, it's not a sin. But you should keep the trust factor in your friendship, don't lie to him. Just take things slowly, you're both young and single, so who knows what might happen? :)
Bendy xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell just a little update
a found out from his best pal he does likes me so i thot i would tell him how i feel to see how he reacts and he came out with this stuff that i hadn't to worry he wont be having a gf in a while and that i'll be over him by then
is that an indication he doesn't like me
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reader, BendychickP +, writes (12 July 2008):
Well, this guy obviously likes you, right? So just subtley observe the way he acts around other girls, this is how you find out if he's a player. If he flirts with other girls alot, it may be harmless, but could progress into something more. Also, listen to the rumour mill. Sometimes it is silly to bother with gossip, but you never know what you might find out. From what I can see, you are unintentionally playing hard to get. This makes him want what he can't have, even if you don't know you're doing it. The hugging and compliments may be him trying to give a hint about his feelings for you. All I can really tell you is to follow you instincts, if it feels right, let it happen. But heartbreak is always a possibility, whether he is a player or not. Also, about the making out thing, don't worry. It will happen when it happens, if he cares about you he'll wait until you're comfortable. I really hope I helped.
Bendy xx
PS:Just remember that the way he treats you is the way he should always treat you :)
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