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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've got a small problem. My husband and I are having some issues. I consider them major issues, but in the scheme of things, they probably aren't. I'm new to this whole marriage thing. This is my first marriage and his third. He's the first serious relationship I've ever been in and I do love him, but he's driving me insane with the constant accusations that I'm cheating on him. If I ask him what route he's running for work he gets suspicious, demanding to know why I want to know. He's doesn't seem to get that I just care. I understand that he worries because of our age gap, but I'm not the type of person to cheat. I'm not that great of a liar, not to mention I never know where he is or what time he's coming home. He won't even tell me when he's on his way home I guess so he can catch me in the act of cheating. He doesn't want me to get a job, but he throws his working all the time in my face, and getting him to just say I love you is like pulling teeth. I'm confused. I don't know what to do any more. I'm over two hours from my family and friends, so it's not like I can just run to my hometown any time I want. I don't want to call it quits, I do love him. I just don't get him. What do I do?
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