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writes: dear cupid, theirs this guy in my class at college..ever since the day he started i cant stop thinking about him.we've recently became good friends but problem is he got set up with another girl in the class just a couple of weeks ago but she doesnt seem to care if he's with her or not.she also told my best mate that she's not interested in him and cant be bothered with it but since she recently found out i like him she suddenly cant keep her hands off when i'm around! he is such a nice guy and wouldnt dare mess anyone about but she's did nothing but use him! it kills me everytime i see them together but i dont want to say anything as its nothing to do with me! any advice would be deeply appreciated x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2006): You certainly do have a dilema. If you tell him how it is, you could jeopardise your friendship which is a risk you dont wanna take. Have you ever told him how you feel? I have a similar situation in that I have grown close to this guy (hes younger than I am) who I had an intimate relationship with (he knows how I feel about him too) and after a few months he started seeing our best mates sister. I was really cut up by it but what hurt the most was the way she treated him - it was beyond appalling. I couldnt say anything though - even though I wanted to give advice as a true friend I knew people would see it as me manipulating the situation for my benefit. I guess, like me, you will have to let him learn for himself what this girl is truly like (my friend is not with her anymore). Be patient but more importantly, be there for him when he needs you (especially if he learns what she is like) as hard as it is. And if they do part give it some time but tell him how you feel about him. Good luck
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