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*hredordie
writes: Hey guys, my ex is seeing someone else currently (started seeing him less than a week after she broke things off). Currently we aren't speaking to one another. This was my decision after we tried over and over to be friends, which wasn't possible because I am still in love with her. When I told her I didn't think we should speak for a while, she was angry with me, only because I had said that before a couple of times and changed my mind. This has been the longest without contact, 3 + weeks. She called me about a week ago but I didn't answer. She is going to be in town this summer, and her new guy lives across the country until fall.If I don't contact her and try to be friends and hang out this summer, will I miss my chance? Will I be copping out if I contact her after only 3 weeks?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2006): Women with stronger foundations, most often than not start to disrespect men who are indecisive. You fall into this 'category'.
She's with someone else now, and that's that. Keep it simple and clear. End of story.
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 June 2006):
dear reader i think it best to just leave it the way it is now. its not going to do you both any favours keeping in contact especialy if she doesn't feel the same for you as you do for her and being as she hasn't contacted you i would say she wants to leave things like this too. she is with a new guy now so leave them to get on with their livs if it don't work out between them she may speak to you but untill then move on the best you can
all th best to you xxx
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