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writes:Getting hard and staying hard...??Ok little embarassed about this, but recently me and my girlfriend moved into the sexual side of our relationship, and while i have no problem with that, i do seem to have a problem of getting hard when i want to.Normally not a problem, only seems to be when we actually get down to sexual intercourse, later on even its fine, i can be painfully hard for hours afterwords, lol. I am not old, only early 20s, not a virgin, but not very experienced either.What i want to know, is there somehting i can do to help this (be hard on command), or do i just sit back and hope it will work its way out over time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): Well, I am going to guess that its stress related.Try to destress things- have a drink or two before hand (but dont over do it), make sure the setting is right. Maybe take a bath or shower together first. Make sure she gets off first, either by finger or oral, so you dont stress about that. You could also consider a cock ring or lasso to keep you hard.
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