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male
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30-35,
*ing of Amateurs
writes:Ok so I feel so confused because I think I might have feelings for three girls and I don`t know what to do. The one girl I met at camp as CIT`s and we became friends pretty quick and I fell for this girl and didn`t have the guts to make a move. We got along very well and worked well together at camp, though we have different interests, she likes sports, I like Video games. The second girl was an old friend from two years back that I remet at a youth rally. She was the only person there that I had to talk to (I'm a loner and manly keep to myself or if there are people I know I might talk with them) we talked a lot and I began getting feelings for her also. During the rally we talked a lot and I found out a lot about her I had never knew, and after wards I felt guilty because when she told me these things, I felt I wasn`t as supportive as I would have liked. The bad thing is that she used to date one of my best friends and he still has feelings for her. The third girl I'm not totally shore I have feelings for her and so I'm closing myself off from her in a way. I try to avoid eye contact out of fear of falling for her also. We go to the same school but she is in the grade above me which makes it just a little bit easier to avoid her(though my school is very small and everyone knows each other), but still I feel like I'm getting feelings for her which is just making me even more confused. So just to recap my problem, I’m confused because I have feelings for 2 girls and am beginning to fall for a third. The first girl I met at camp and became friends but will probably only see her next summer. The second girl used to date a friend that still has feelings for her. And the third girl I feel like I'm closing myself off to her, avoiding eye contact and I feel guilty, but I don`t want to get feeling for another girl because it will only make me more confused and my friends are useless because they give me horrible advise. I have never had a girlfriend before and am one of thouse socialy awkward video gamers thay has trouble in conversations, which makes it even harder for me to know what to do.
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reader, suitcase  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 lucky you mate,,,,3?? congrats,,,but you should try my methodbut it's not a good way start putting points to your crushes,,u know according to you likenesses,,and what do they posses,and pick who got more marks,,i'll give you the marking scheme, emotional things should get more marks than physical things,,think about the future and ask your self what do you really want?????try and let me know,,i'll give further advices:)gud luck you lucky guy..:P
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