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*livia W
writes:I have been seeing this guy for 5 months.He had been a lot more smitten than before last month.He spent almost every night at my place.However,we had a fight over some stupid things he did when he was drunk.Our last talk was on the phone,he went like "whatever,I will call you when i got back from my parents."(His parents are living in different state,he was going to spend 10 days with them.)It's been a week,no words from him.What should I do?Should I text him and ask if we are ok or should i wait?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (12 July 2012):
 I would end it. Not much to end to be honest… the next time he contacts you just say “I really don’t’ have the time for this” and end it. What you are saying is you don’t have the time for his game playing… he’s just not that into you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2012): Dump him. He's a time waster.
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reader, Olivia W +, writes (12 July 2012):
Olivia W is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for everyone's answer.So he eventually contacted me from another phone and seemed really want to talk to me.I found 7missed calls and 6 texts from him before he headed back home.We did talk about meeting up that day but he ended up cancel it coz it was kinda late and he had to work early.Anyway he disappear ever since the day after.For whole entire day,he did not reply any of my call and message.However i found out he was on fb yesterday and did not even try to contact me.(He could use his phone to get on fb )Should I just dump him before it gets too late?We all know it's comment courtesy to reply the phone calls.
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reader, Olivia W +, writes (7 July 2012):
Olivia W is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe stupid things he did is nothing about other girls tho.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (6 July 2012):
When did he go to spend ten days with them and when did he return?
If he returned before july 4th then I think you may want to consider that it’s over and done and text him for some closure… if he was away through the holiday hold off a few more days.
Whatever you do… do not text him asking him “where do we stand” or anything else like that… ANY and all relationship conversations need to be held via voice preferably face to face.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2012): If the silly things he did when he was drunk involved other females and flirting, sexual contact etc, then possibly the reason he was sucking up to you more was through a bit of guilt about something else he's done that you don't know about. His attitude about the phone call that never came, sounds like that of someone who isn't really bothered one way or another about where things go between you and him, and the reason he ain't called is possibly because he's backing or backed out of the relationship with you and doesn't have the balls to tell you he wants out, (Just my opinion).
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reader, ineedyou  +, writes (6 July 2012):
 What is this? Kindergarten? Sorry, OP, but he's not behaving in a mature kinda way! Adults communicate and don't just say "whatever, I'll call you whenever". What is that? He's supposed to love you and care for you...! Don't call him, OP, just don't. And when he calls you (if he does) confront him over his childish behavior. Whenever I fight with my fiancé, we talk it out and then sort it out or just "agree to disagree" and that's it. I couldn't stop calling him for a week... it'd be torture!
Grown-ups fight and get over it, they don't hold grudges for weeks. Good luck! :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2012): If he told you he will call you when he gets back from his parents, and you know he is going to be there for 10 days, I would most likely wait until I know he has come back. He may be taking this time to figure things out. Give him his space until he returns home from his parents. I know it hurts to do this, but it may be best, as if you call or message him he may feel pressured which is not going to help things. Good Luck.
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